I never had actual weight issues. Im rather small but I am into big men and know the struggle they go thru. I will say the best thing is to decide if you can be happy with her as she is. if you get involved in a relationship based on changing her, it will end badly. You will either force her toward something she is not and she will tire and hate you for it or you will grow more and more angry that she will not change for you.
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