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Originally Posted by kollege_gal2000
Sometimes he picks the porn over me, but he has mentioned that he picks porn over me because sometimes he doesn't want to mess with the time it takes to get me off, and yes, I do take a while.
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I have a major issue with this statement. He doesn't want to mess with the time it takes to get you off? Are we talking strictly intercourse here, or oral sex? Have him read the book
She Comes First, because it will help him understand (if he truly adores you, which is what you deserve... not just him thinking you're cute while he "fetishizes" a different type of woman) why YOU should be the priority. No offense, but he sounds a bit immature and/or lazy to me.
If he's truly into you (and into his sexuality), he should LOVE getting you off, no matter how long it takes. It takes me quite a long time to get off, too, but I never feel rushed by my boyfriend... and I'm no perfect-sized gal, either.
Be confident in your body and KNOW that you are sexy!
He should make you feel even more sexy, not diminished in comparison to some fake porn bitch. Tell him exactly what you need and want from him; what would make you feel sexy? Maybe he's clueless. It's up to him whether or not he can rise to the challenge
but if he can't, then find someone who will work hard to satisfy you.