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Originally Posted by kollege_gal2000
If you constantly clean up after her, she will never want to clean because she will think that you will always clean up after her. Do not let this get to you at first. She has to notice for herself how much of an inconvinence it is for you before she will do anything.
Third, when she does clean up something, comment on it. I do not mean, criticize another room, or say "this is nice but you missed a spot", I get those comments, hence why I don't clean up much anymore. Comment on how nice it looks, or just the fact that you appreciate it.
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I did that with my G/F early on while living together... it worked great.. it took some time for her to stop complaining about having to clean so much.. but it was her mess.. she is better now.. just hit the aproach above and give it time.. if not... find a new girlfriend.