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Originally Posted by maleficent
Living with someone is an adjustment... and it takes time... I doubt she's being disprespectul to you on purpose.
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Bingo! All of those idiosyncrasies and quirks that you found so cute in the beginning now become anoyances. In any relationship there is a large amount of give and take. It all boils down to just how much you are willing to give, and how much you need to take. Mrs. O'Rights and I have been married for ten year, and I hold my tounge...a lot. As does she, I'm sure. Choose your battles wisely. How much damage is kitty going to do the TV? Is it worth getting in a row about? The dirty dishes? That's a communication thing. Express to her how important to you that it is that dirty dishes be put into the dishwasher. Don't nag...remind.