I think you should tell him, and say what you did here about having learned your lesson, etc. If you think he's going to get all inflammatory about it and not listen, perhaps you could try writing him a letter - I'd explain the reason though. Obviously he's taking this very seriously so if he sees you in the video he's going to feel betrayed if you don't tell him. The stuff about kicking some ass is probably just talk but obviously he's upset. Even if his friendship is not important to you it's the decent thing to do and you'll feel better about yourself for having done the right thing and coming clean.
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