Originally Posted by martinguerre

Blech.

While you may be well intentioned, there is no harm inherient in a self-identification. So...assuming for the sake of arguement, that she is mistaken. So what? She'll find that out on her own.
This isn't a problem. I don't see why you'd treat it like one.

If she's having issues beyond the question of idenity, or it's cuasing her a lot of stress...then it make sense. But just because someone decided they're queer doesn't call for medical intervention.