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When I found out my ex had an affair I wanted details. Sadly, he gave them to me. I couldn't have sex with him after that without thinking about the details of the affair.
At the same time, Lebell has given me some details of past relationships and that makes no difference to me. (Sometimes it even turns me on.) I wonder if it simply because those relationship had/have no impact on our relationship. The past is the past. Whereas, my ex's affair had a direct impact on me. Hmmm, one will never know!
The point is, to echo several others, be sure you want to know before asking or seeking details.
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If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
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