Here's what I did, and it seemed to work pretty well. After living with the same guy for a year and a half, he told me that we "needed to talk." He hemmed and hawed for a while, talked about our friendship then finally blurted out, "I'm gay."
I was so surprised, that my mouth fell open and his dick slipped out. No. Just kidding.
All the time he was leading up to his announcement, I was thinking "oh shit, he's going to tell me that I annoy him, or that I pissed him off, or that he doesn't want to live with me any more." I mean this guy was an AWESOME roommate -super kind, considerate, etc. and I'm annoying dickhead.
So when he got to the "gay" part of it, I was so fucking relieved, I truly did not give a shit. And that's what I said. Maybe this works better for guys than girls, but when I said, "I don't give a shit" he was pretty relieved too. Life went on as it had before.
Sexuality is just one small part of a person's overall whole. And unless you happen to be having sex with that person, it shouldn't matter to you in the least.
My point, if I can finally get to it, is this - maybe you ought to do nothing (unless asked). Just keep being her friend. Don't try to "help" because maybe the best thing you can do for her is show her that nothing has changed between you.
Just a thought.
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