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If she doesn't want to tell you, she probably knows that it will hurt you and you will never get over it. Let's suppose she was a hooker. Honestly now, how you ever going to make love to her again. You'll think, did she do this with all the guys,...who were the guys,..where did they do it,..etc.
If it is like this scenerio, you'll ruin your marriage. It will consume you. Everday will go by and you'll think of it. When you both run into her old friends, your first thought will be,..did she fuck him too?
Of course she will ease into it slowly only giving a fraction of the details to monitor your reaction. To much shock and awe from you with very little revealed will ruin you, because you will think the worst. Just like giving a dog people food, they never look at their food the same again.
If you need to know, pursue it. If it fucks up your life, at least you know. But even if it doesn't, you'll never forget. She had a life before you. Now she is your child's mother.
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" In Canada, you can tell the most blatant lie in a calm voice, and people will believe you over someone who's a little passionate about the truth." David Warren, Western Standard.
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