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Originally Posted by kollege_gal2000
I think this is completely true. My boyfriend has the worse problem dancing, and it is because he "dances" with the upper part of his body while the bottom stands still. Guys really need to learn how to work your hips when you dance. Alot of bumping and grinding deals with sexual movements. Just think that you're in bed making love, and you pretty much have it. If this doesn't work, then always follow the girl. It is always more enjoyable for the girl if the guy matches her and isn't always bumping her.  |
Ok then, what if you're dancing solo, which is the kind that goes on mostly at the parties i go to (ie not the hip hop, meat market club events but the more underground, love the music, usually electronica, events). would you say that this flowing style/move your hips style for guys holds throughout all styles of beat oriented dance music?
what you said about not worrying about people looking at me (in response to the feminine comment) isn't really an issue for me. as I see it, that argument is to encourage guys to leave the "sidelines" and get over their fear of dancing, and get on the dance floor. to be honest, I have no problem with that. But, at the moment, i want to advance, so to speak, from the haphazard, do whatever the hell you want, "dance like no one's looking" style dancing, to something that looks better.