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Originally Posted by Jim Kata
I don't know how to make a poll so here it goes.
Last night I was talking to my woman, and asked her what my top 3 nagging things were (so I know what to stop).
Well, I found out that #1 was "badgering" her to get an STD test when we were a few months into our relationship (which was almost 4 years ago).
She had only been with one person before (with a condom) but she has "swallowed" about 5 guys semen (never mine....but thats just a whole other minor bitchfest).
Me, being a virgin and very hypocondriacish, asked her to get tested to make sure everything was cool (not just her being tested, but got tested myself) before we started having sex without a condom.
Anyways...she told me all of her friends thought I was being stupid, and I never got my friends opinion on the situation. But I was just curious on what you ladies thought about it if someone had asked you to do what I asked, and what you guys would think of a friend of yours asking a girl to do the same.
Please be honest, and forgive me for not giving more details because, I'm a bit tipsy right now. But they can provided if asked (i feel like an asshole about the whole thing now).
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First I just want to commend you on your maturity for wanting to get tested before you have unprotected sex. Second, if she cant respect the fact that you want to stay safe, then I would question her character. Someone mentioned that if she doesn't want to get tested after you "Badgering" her for four years, then she definately has something to hide, and I completely agree...