I think that if my boyfriend asked me what bothers me the most about him, and the worst I could come up with was something he did 4 years ago, he should take that as a very positive sign. However, I would never be offended if a guy asked me to have an STD test - in fact, this is something I have routinely asked when I start seeing someone new. Then again I'm a lot more experienced than you guys so it's more routine to me.
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