I've been going through the same thing with my girlfriend. It has seemed like she's being completely unfair and unappreciative. I think this may be a reaction to my getting too serious and dependent on her. The harder I push, the more distant she gets from me.
I've finally decided that I'd rather be with her and put up with the occassional being ignored or hurt than not be with her at all. I do love her and think she's worth any hurt she might cause. I think maybe you have to make this decision too.
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