Insensitivity and unrealistic expectations are an individual personality trait and have nothing to do with watching porn, IMHO. He could be just as well be hung up on a former girlfriend's vagina, or expect his girlfriend to look like most of the stars in movies and television. Just because he's using porn as his yardstick doesn't make the porn in any way responsible for his being a prick.
I have no trouble with ratbastid watching porn. I know he thinks I'm beautiful, and I'm the one he's fucking at the end of the day
