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chickentribs · 01-29-2005, 10:48 AM

Take her to the movies, buy the big tub of popcorn, cut a hole in the bottom and then when she goes for the popcorn... Oh wait - that would fall under "trickery" which we've already ruled out. Sorry Averett! (I'm listening to Dashboard myself right now if that helps...)

Seriously though - there are things you can do to help her feel more intimate and comfortable with you that lead to the promised land. For example - jump in the shower together in the middle of the day and be relaxed and playful with her, ie. don't make it about sex! If she is comfortable letting you service her needs in bed - this shouldn't be a huge step. Just don't get crazy yourself - not yet. Give her time to get used to being around "Little PMF21" (your words - not mine! Maybe try "Big Daddy" or "El Capitan" instead?) and when she sees how comfortable you are cracking jokes and having fun, she will follow your lead. When everyone is comfortable and at ease - that's when it gets fun! Good luck!

Oh yeah - don't let it get to your self esteem. It's her thing that you can help her around... no big deal. It just happens at a pace you can't and shouldn't control.

01-29-2005, 10:48 AM	#9 (permalink)
chickentribs Addict Location: Mansion by day/Secret Lair by night	Take her to the movies, buy the big tub of popcorn, cut a hole in the bottom and then when she goes for the popcorn... Oh wait - that would fall under "trickery" which we've already ruled out. Sorry Averett! (I'm listening to Dashboard myself right now if that helps...) Seriously though - there are things you can do to help her feel more intimate and comfortable with you that lead to the promised land. For example - jump in the shower together in the middle of the day and be relaxed and playful with her, ie. don't make it about sex! If she is comfortable letting you service her needs in bed - this shouldn't be a huge step. Just don't get crazy yourself - not yet. Give her time to get used to being around "Little PMF21" (your words - not mine! Maybe try "Big Daddy" or "El Capitan" instead?) and when she sees how comfortable you are cracking jokes and having fun, she will follow your lead. When everyone is comfortable and at ease - that's when it gets fun! Good luck! Oh yeah - don't let it get to your self esteem. It's her thing that you can help her around... no big deal. It just happens at a pace you can't and shouldn't control. __________________ Oft expectation fails... and most oft there Where most it promises - Shakespeare, W.