I have to echo Averett and Sweetpea on this one...
My boy had to wait a loooooong time before he got anything from me. And the fact of the matter was.... I was scared. I'd barely even seen a penis before, let alone actually *gasp* touch one. I'd say give her time. And maybe, even, give her little pushes in the right direction. I dont mean scarring her for life or anything, but that's what it took for me. I made a small move and he helped me the rest of the way.
The important thing is that she knows she's not being pressured and that she's comfortable. Makes all the difference in the world.
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