skier

I guess is a little dirty but...

I've met a number of girls that more than enjoy recieving pleasure but aren't that great at giving. I've found they are much more willing to play with you just before their big O. I free up a hand and guide one of theirs towards.. me. They usually start reciprocating with minor encouragement.

I admit it's not the nicest game to play, but spending a few hours getting blue balls ain't much fun either.

edit- The reason my technique works is because is not because I pressure a girl into touching my member, but that when she is feeling pleasure, it's a natural thing to reciprocate it.

I think most girls(initially) have a mental image of a penis, and that it somehow includes some sort of personification- like lust, desire, intent, etc. which is absurd but it changes their view of it from just a piece of flesh that enables pleasure to something else, something scary. Is this way off? or am i on the right track here?

The best way to remove that fear would be to "turn on the lights"- that is, show her what a penis really is, in a safe and comfortable environment. which is around, fortunately, when you're having sex. (usually)

Or am I scarring girls by letting them stroke me? because that is totally the opposite of what I thought i was doing.

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