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She's young right? And maybe this is one of her first relationships?
Sorry to say, but you're just going to have to give her time. If you like her, and you seem to, you'll do that for her.
Just know that this has nothing to do with you. It's her issues. And there is nothing wrong with her at all either. Some girls can be very touchy and sexual and whatnot right away, and others it takes time for them to loosen up so to speak. Sounds like she's one of the latter.
And the tricking thing? Don't do that. You're an adult. So is she. You're old enough to have adult conversations about yourselves. If you can't talk to her about your sexual needs and such, then maybe you're not ready for such a relationship yourself. Talk to her about your feelings. You might be surprised with her response.
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