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Even if it doesn't come to divorce, you want to be prepared. Start the groundwork now to have custody of your child. Hopefully you won't need it, but still...
Look, it's not really the sex that's getting your goat here. It's the lies. You need to have a conversation with her about exactly what she's done and with whom. You need to be able to hear all that without blaming her or being (overly) upset. If you don't think you can handle hearing it all, don't start this conversation, but my recommendation is that you give her an opportunity to come 100% clean, and let her trust that you're coming from a commitment to restore the trust and the partnership. Getting the truth told is the first part of that.
It'll only work if she's really committed to your marriage and ending the lies. If she's not, get your divorce lawyer working ASAP.
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