I feel that internet relationships are as valid as direct relationships. In the days before computers people had pen pals which they kept in close contact with and respected as if they were right there with them. I know that I consider many of the people I have talked to over the past years friends, many that Ive met in person and many that I have not. I talk to lots of people on the phone and treat them just as I do all my other friends. I think the internet has brought us closer and like anything else can be used for good or evil.
Like ratbastid said people are drawn to one another when a common interest is shared. Blogs and message boards have helped to expedite this process so that when someone finds a community they like they stay. I honestly would never abandon my direct friendships to stay at home and sit online, but if I have a night at home or nothing to do its nice to hop on here and talk to my friends.
I will say I dont take everything to heart ESPECIALLY on the internet. I trust those that Ive befriended, but if something were to fall through I wouldnt be terribly upset. I definately do not seek my husband here on the net, but if it happened that would be just fine.
I think the internet is just this generations "pen pals"
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