I will keep my eyes open for that book. Thank you for the recomendation.
I think I see what you are saying. Certainly decisions ones make whether to go to point A or B or choose career C or D or call person X or Z can have consequences but those choices we make, I don't see as limiting. Those choices are ours and the actions we take are more important then those decisions. I remember a discussion with my brother about how I could imagine my time being used in the next few years. He replied that is sounded great but won't you be limiting youself? To what, both I and he did not know. I can not plan for what does not exist in my reality. If you are following through with what you belive to be the right course of action, how can you be wrong and how can you be limiting youself if that is the only conclusion you could make?
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