you're better off asking her to guide you through what she likes. she knows she enjoys being fingered, so she prolly knows just how she likes it too.
personally, i like a very light touch (middle or ring finger usually)with a single finger going slowly in small circles directly on my clit. as i get more into it, i want a firmer touch and increasing speed. i also like my partner to continue for a bit after my climax rather than suddenly stopping. after that, i'm generally desperate for penetration of some sort.
i've never had a partner get it right the first few times without some coaching from me despite how much experience he may have had with other women. if you really want to do it right for her, you're going to need some help from her!
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