Don't have sex with someone until you're ready to. If you need to drink in order to hit the sheets with someone then you probably shouldn't be doing it, you have inhibitions for a reason. If you need the sex but aren't ready for a relationship, I think a fuck buddy can work, but it should be somebody you already know and trust, not some grimy dude. Good luck with that, apparently it's a good time to be a single male in Salt Lake City 
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Pride is the recognition of the fact that you are your own highest value and, like all of man’s values, it has to be earned.
It is not advisable, James, to venture unsolicited opinions. You should spare yourself the embarrassing discovery of their exact value to your listener.
Ayn Rand, Atlas Shrugged
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