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Originally Posted by Jim Kata
I've tried....she got some other kind...but she keeps forgetting to take that pill and the patch was so much easier for her, so she went back to it. It is the most frustrating thing ever. I don't want to nag her about it, cause she just ends up feeling bad, which makes me feel terrible...and then things are good (meaning sexual activity wise) for about 2 or 3 weeks and then back to this new normal again. Its a viscous cycle that will never end.
Sorry for thread jacking, carry on.
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wow... me and my husband went through that for a while, but i ended up being happier getting off the pill than trying different brands...
if you can't talk to each other openly about sex, you probably should be rethinking your relationship now before you end up 45, married, and seriously thinking of getting a mistress because your sex life sucks so bad.
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Given that I've had sex before and find the experience thoroughly enjoyable, I would not want to be plagued with constant horniness while I'm trying to work on my master's degree and my PhD. And finally, women seem to have some innate means to sense when a guy is starved of sex and female attention---and this turns them off. Given that I'll most likely be single for the next seven years after I graduate from college and start my grad studies, I would want to shut my sex drive off so that I can pour my energy into something more productive
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why are you doing something that you're expecting to be so god awfully terrible? won't you just end up with a self-fufilling prophecy? WHY would you want to go through "hell" for that long? the money won't be worth it, that's for sure.
don't postpone joy, i say. that way you won't have to deny the wonderful body that you started out with while slaving away at something unenjoyable. i say the ends wouldn't justify the means at alll
