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Give her a month or so, and taht is tentative. Really, just give her the time she needs. Lots and lots of foreplay helps to get her ready both physically and mentally, that includes stuff like fingering. Let her be on top, and in control. That means you don't move until or unless she asks you to. It should help to let her control what is happening and give her body a chance to get used to you. If she's willing to try, it should get easier each time. Give her enough time between trying to relax and to deal whatever it is she needs to deal with. Make sure she knows that she's the only one you want, that the experience is special, and be very very patient with her.
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17 seconds is all you really need
- Smashing Pumpkins
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