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I think it kind of depends on the person. I was my current girlfriend's first, and the first few times we tried it hurt her too much to be able to do anything. She was very wet and ready to go, but was nervous and tense about the possibility of pain. When it eventually happened, she was perfectly relaxed and it didn't hurt her a bit. Dunno if that helps, but maybe it's something to keep in mind.
Telling her how you feel is a good thing, as long as it does not come across as pressuring her. It'll be much better for both of you when she is completely relaxed and ready.
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