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Willravel · 12-29-2004, 02:58 PM

Alright, time for more "Sex You Deserve" advise.

If you want to make a good first impression with that woman over there, you're too late. It's done. As soon as a woman lays eyes on someone, she has a first impression (as is true of both genders). It;s what happenes next that counts.

Be Ready to Fetch- An animated person is like a tail-wagging dog. And she'd rather play with an eager pup than with a sleeping hound. People who are expressive, as opposed to poker-faced, are considered attractive. They might gesticulate a lot of have faces that are easy to read, both of which make her more secure in their presence. She knows where she stands. Be Sean Connery, not Roger Moore. The Scotsman smiles with his mouth AND eyes, and looks directly at whoever he's talking to.

Ask, Don't Tell- Women are their own favorite subject, so if they spend the whole time talking about themselves, they'll remember it as a great experience. Make her feel good by steering the conversation towards her interests. The longer she talks, the more she likes you. Bonus points for remembering what she said.

Get Physical- Make eye contact and lean forward. You're interested in what she is saying and women find attentave men attractive. Getting her attention is as simple as giving yours - and your body language does that.

Be Mysterious- Let's be honest, we men like to fold fourth on topics we know a lot about. This lecturing bores the bejesus out of women. Resist the urge! Only procede if she asks active questions (questions that show genuine interest) about what is being said. Try intriguing her with a line such as: "Next time I'll show you photos from my trip to Peru."

Play the Name Game- Hearing her name will stimulate thye right side of her brain, which means she'll pay attention to you. Drop her name into the conversation a couple of times. Use it too much and you'll sound like a used car salesman. Use it maybe 3 or 4 times toward the beginning of the night. If she comments on it, say you are bad wityh names and really, really want to remember hers.

12-29-2004, 02:58 PM	#18 (permalink)
Willravel ... a sort of licensed troubleshooter.	First Impressions Alright, time for more "Sex You Deserve" advise. If you want to make a good first impression with that woman over there, you're too late. It's done. As soon as a woman lays eyes on someone, she has a first impression (as is true of both genders). It;s what happenes next that counts. Be Ready to Fetch- An animated person is like a tail-wagging dog. And she'd rather play with an eager pup than with a sleeping hound. People who are expressive, as opposed to poker-faced, are considered attractive. They might gesticulate a lot of have faces that are easy to read, both of which make her more secure in their presence. She knows where she stands. Be Sean Connery, not Roger Moore. The Scotsman smiles with his mouth AND eyes, and looks directly at whoever he's talking to. Ask, Don't Tell- Women are their own favorite subject, so if they spend the whole time talking about themselves, they'll remember it as a great experience. Make her feel good by steering the conversation towards her interests. The longer she talks, the more she likes you. Bonus points for remembering what she said. Get Physical- Make eye contact and lean forward. You're interested in what she is saying and women find attentave men attractive. Getting her attention is as simple as giving yours - and your body language does that. Be Mysterious- Let's be honest, we men like to fold fourth on topics we know a lot about. This lecturing bores the bejesus out of women. Resist the urge! Only procede if she asks active questions (questions that show genuine interest) about what is being said. Try intriguing her with a line such as: "Next time I'll show you photos from my trip to Peru." Play the Name Game- Hearing her name will stimulate thye right side of her brain, which means she'll pay attention to you. Drop her name into the conversation a couple of times. Use it too much and you'll sound like a used car salesman. Use it maybe 3 or 4 times toward the beginning of the night. If she comments on it, say you are bad wityh names and really, really want to remember hers.