My husband and I both very much want a girlfriend, I want her to be my friend and lover, and to join me in teasing him :P. He's not into having sex with her on his own, only wants it to be as a 3some, so I think I get the lion's share of the deal. Just have to find someone we both agree on, and who agrees with us. It's tough. When we were in Cali, we used alt.matchmaker.com, but that was a year ago, and it was a lot more populated than it is now. I know a lot of the alts moved to a new alternative lifestyles website and I can't remember it for the life of me.
We're not actively looking at this point, too much stress in our lives, we want to settle into our own house and be stable again before we go girlfriend hunting, but that's what we'll be doing. We don't want a one night stand, or even a 3 round go. I want a longterm girlfriend, who may or may not at some time in the future, live with us permanently. Why do I get the feeling that this would be easier if we were rich? Bleh.
I feel your frustration hon...
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