Ding, Ding, Ding, Ding, Ding (that is the bell of reason ringing)
Don't automatically write her off because she has a boyfriend. The term "boyfriend" can imply many, many levels of relationship that we here can't just assume means a "loving, caring, 100% devoted relationship". If I would have let the "boyfriend" stand in my way, I wouldn't be married to my wife right now, expecting our first child. In my wife's case, the guy was a young, immature idiot. She clearly had feelings for me and I called her out on it. If I would have left her alone to work through with herself, who knows if I would be with my soul mate (yes, corny but true) right now.
Talk to her
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