Well as her boyfriend you need to know her friends. At least one of every girls friends will give her up if the right pressure is applied (not like C.I.A., think appealing to her fair side). Know which of her friends has been cheated on something pretty serious. Know that she is your best bet or honesty about your gf cheating. Go to her in great dispair and worry. DO NOT APPEAR ANGRY. This (aside from stupid mistakes she might make) is your best bet as far as I can see.
The reason the flowers thing works is that the extreme secracy works against cheaters. Thye think they have you figured out; she/he knows how crafty you are. BUT they don't know how crafty I am (heh). They get paranoid about what they expect from you, and they can be so attentave to what's expected, they become vulnerable to the unexpected. It's like being distracted by specific concentration.
There' always that "Cheaters" show.
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