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just thought i'd toss in my two cents on the screaming thing...there are different degrees of orgasms and there are different types as well. not all orgasms are the imploding type--i've had some very explosive ones and those tend to lead to screaming. with a slow steady build-up, it's true that you are tightening up muscles and less likely to scream till you are riding the wave of release. but when you have an explosive orgasm that just hits you out of nowhere--that doesn't have a wave of release and you aren't tensed up, hence screaming is not only very possible but very likely.
depending on what he does to get me to orgasm, i have a very different reaction because it is a different type of orgasm. it's not the same climax when it's oral sex as when there is penetration. fingering feels different as do toys and grinding. i've had orgasms just from my partner touching my breasts--it's another unique experience. some controlled breathing while clenching the right muscles and i can orgasm without anyone touching me at all, but again, totally different sensation.
overall though, great list!
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