I play on
http://www.wolfgaming.net's Forgotten Hope v.65 (BF1942 v1.61) server, its probably the best Forgotten Hope server out there. You'll run into some fucking idiots every once in a while, but for the most part people there are good to play with. The only downfall is that you can't "cuss" on the server without being bitched at by admins. The server also uses the PTK/FTK console commands, so you can punish or forgive teamkillers, which is great.
Its server is: 65.206.113.131:14567