to be honest, i haven't read anyone elses replies..
from my experience in high school.. i can probably tell you some things..
we did this to a dude in our group as well... we played a soccer-like game in a small grassed area.. the goal was to get the ball to hit the other teams bin, any way you could.. this involved serious tackling... anyway, that was just fun.. but the issue was, there was a fence the ball used to always go over, and this fence was a bitch...
so we always made this dude jump the fence and get the ball, and if he didn't, we just threw his bag over the fence... or onto the roof.. or woteva...
and generally gave him a heap of shit...
but, seriously, all you gotta do, (and sure, it really pisses people off, and they might bitch, but who gives a fuck really...) but all you gotta do is get really cut (hurt) when people say mean shit, make them KNOW they're pissing you off, just say to them they're fuckwits and walk off for a bit...
in the end.. thats a way of not taking their shit, the alternative is to pick on someone else, or pick on them, OR be-friend the main offender...
in the end, in the end, just dont be PASSIVE... don't think about it, realise you deserve better... you do.. you just have to let those people know that.
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