I guess it's relative....most of the girls I've been with would probably say I'm a solid 8 or 9 in that I've done all the things they haven't or wouldn't. In this forum, I'd say I"m probably a 7. I've done most, and there isn't much I'd say no to at least once. I definitely draw the line at poop and blood. Unless a little blood happens to sneak out of the scratches on my back left from some roughness. That'd be okay....
