You know, living in denial about your (natural, normal, healthy) instincts isn't helping things. OF COURSE you see other women and have an irrational, immediate sexual attraction to them. If you have a pulse, that happens sometimes. You don't have to be a man, either. I just flat don't buy that you don't think like that sometimes.
Your (ex-)girl's problem is, she's looking for something that doesn't exist.
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