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She overreacted, so much so that I wonder if she was looking for an excuse to get out of the relationship. Even if not, as others have said her reaction was immature, her expectations 'way out of line. She doesn't know very much about life and relationships, may have some starry-eyed idea that a guy should worship her and nobody else. Well, the glands don't work that way.
I knew a guy who'd totally flip everytime he saw a good-looking redhead. Just couldn't keep his eyes off her. He never did anything about it, of course, but it was really obvious that his glands were firing. His wife ( _not_ a redhead_) just rolled her eyes whenever it happened. Like you say, blktour, she knew who he was going home with -- her. Your ex -- and she is ex -- isn't experienced or wise or secure enough to know that. If you want to give her one more chance for old-times sake, go ahead. But if she doesn't want to talk about it except to say that you're somehow bad, there's nothing to be done.
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