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Originally posted by davidc209
There's nothing like getting over the last one then the NEXT one.
That said, give yourself a little time to heal before you jump into the next girl. You said you were her first boyfriend? Was she your first girlfriend too?? My first breakup was really hard too. You've got to stay away from your exgirlfriend. Stay away from her friends. Don't ask your friends about her, don't try to communicate with her. Maybe later down the road you'll become friends again, but for now, she'll only cause you heartache (trust me).
Listen to some good music, do things that you couldn't do before with her. YOU'RE FREE. Go have fun with your friends, go out to parties, work on some fun projects around the house that you've been wanting to do for a long time. Just do stuff that keeps your mind occupied so you don't dwell on your pain.
The first one is always the hardest, but soon, you'll become a relationship pro and "moving on" from your next girlfriends will be much easier!
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Great advice, I appreciate it. Sometimes it's the obvious stuff like finding something to do that will help such a rough problem. And no, this isn't my first relationship, I've had plenty of experience in the past. The hard thing is that we became such good friends and actually were more like good friends w/ benefits rather than going out for the 2+ years. Now she really has become good friends with all of the people I introduced her to so I'm always running into her and she still calls me wondering "whats goin on toinght" and all. I had her remove my number from her cell phone a few weeks back so that she would call me less, however we're still attached. It's odd.
Luckily it's getting better. Thx for the advice and comfort all.