There's nothing like getting over the last one then the NEXT one.
That said, give yourself a little time to heal before you jump into the next girl. You said you were her first boyfriend? Was she your first girlfriend too?? My first breakup was really hard too. You've got to stay away from your exgirlfriend. Stay away from her friends. Don't ask your friends about her, don't try to communicate with her. Maybe later down the road you'll become friends again, but for now, she'll only cause you heartache (trust me).
Listen to some good music, do things that you couldn't do before with her. YOU'RE FREE. Go have fun with your friends, go out to parties, work on some fun projects around the house that you've been wanting to do for a long time. Just do stuff that keeps your mind occupied so you don't dwell on your pain.
The first one is always the hardest, but soon, you'll become a relationship pro and "moving on" from your next girlfriends will be much easier!
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