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Old 12-09-2004, 12:24 PM   #4 (permalink)
maleficent
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Ok -- so even though you called me an OLD LADY - -(grumbles about damned young whippersnappers), I'll help you anyhow...

When I was using on-line dating services, some are better than others, some completely suck... but what you want to make sure that you are pretty specific in what you are looking for.

Don't want kids? Say so... Don't want someone over the age of 30? Say so. It may come across as a little shallow... but you are trying to meet people you want to spend time with -- you shouldn't have to settle. So many ads from men are written so that it could be caveman esque. Want - female - -aged 18-99 - must have boobies. Other than that I don't care...

I've suggested this time and again to lots of people, but get out and volunteer, spend time away from work, doing something that you enjoy, and you will meet people in the process (where I volunteered last weekend, there were three very cute, under 25 young ladies with me- would have been the perfect opportunity for a young fella) Take a class of something that interests you.
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