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refusing a relationship because of the others 'disabilities' is at least honest, although denotes alot of selfishness in the individual, at least IMHO.
Had I refused a relationship because of the others disability or illness then I wouldn't have the family I have now.
Yes, my wife has a debilitating conditition (Lupus) and it makes life extremely difficult at times but I wouldn't have it any other way without her.
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"no amount of force can control a free man, a man whose mind is free. No, not the rack, not fission bombs, not anything. You cannot conquer a free man; the most you can do is kill him."
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