Its very sad that your friends would refuse a relationship with someone based on their own insecurities or their interpretation of the other persons inabilities. You never know where a friendship or relationship will go if you don't try. One of those people who are blind, deaf, missing a limb, etc could be their match. I would be curious to know if your friends think that they wouldn't be worth dating if one of them were to become disabled. How would they feel if by being blind, they were now thought to be unworthy of love and attention? Sad, very sad.
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