I, for one, am going for the "move on" option. I know that it's not what you want to hear, but there it it. From my experience (I'm 42), she's got some emotional problems, and has got a lot of growing up to do. If she's willing to throw away your relationship, over something this minor (and believe me, in the grand scheme of things, this is very minor), then how is she going to handle a real situation? Unless she was just using this incident as an excuse to "take the walk", then Little Missy has got one hell of a lot of growing up to do, before she is ever going to be able to be in an effectual relationship.
On the other hand, if you're her "first" relationship, then she may truly not have a clue about what life is. It may take 2 or 3 failures on her part, to fully realize what it was that she lost. But, by then I expect that you'll have long since found a beautiful young woman, that can appreciate you for you, and not some fantasized Prince Charming.
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