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Painted · 12-06-2004, 09:52 PM

Sex is not the biggest thing for me to be concerned about.
Id rather have a few close female friends (with sex & a relationship as a distant possibility -ha!) than one female partner with steady sex.

Example: I called up a girl,michelle, a few hours ago
"Hey michelle, wanna kick it for an hour?"
"Okay, I'll meet you outside in a few"
"Alright"

We just spent an hour smoking cigs in front of a liqour store. No contact, no feelings. And now I got something to think about when I whack off later tonight.

But there is a downside, in that the friendship will never grow. But, if she shows interest ("Okay, I'll meet you outside in a few" instead of "Oh.. umm.. sorry I'm a little busy") and you show interest ("Hey michelle, wanna kick it for a few hours?" 3 times/week instead of one measly phone call a week) something has to come out of it.

I guess what I'm getting at is that yes, wait a while, and if something clicks, it will.

12-06-2004, 09:52 PM	#11 (permalink)
Painted Pleasure Burn	Sex is not the biggest thing for me to be concerned about. Id rather have a few close female friends (with sex & a relationship as a distant possibility -ha!) than one female partner with steady sex. Example: I called up a girl,michelle, a few hours ago "Hey michelle, wanna kick it for an hour?" "Okay, I'll meet you outside in a few" "Alright" We just spent an hour smoking cigs in front of a liqour store. No contact, no feelings. And now I got something to think about when I whack off later tonight. But there is a downside, in that the friendship will never grow. But, if she shows interest ("Okay, I'll meet you outside in a few" instead of "Oh.. umm.. sorry I'm a little busy") and you show interest ("Hey michelle, wanna kick it for a few hours?" 3 times/week instead of one measly phone call a week) something has to come out of it. I guess what I'm getting at is that yes, wait a while, and if something clicks, it will. Last edited by Painted; 12-06-2004 at 09:55 PM..