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There are two girls that I can think of off hand. In the past four months, I used the direct route with both of them and I got a "not interested" from one and a "We're better off staying friends" from another. I backed off from both of them.
I see the "friends" girl at a lot of social situations since we have a couple of common friends, didn't talk to her much after that and then I found that she began to want to talk to me and even went as far as suggesting that we do a road trip together.
As for the "not interested" girl, I didn't see or talk to her for a couple of months. Then last week we saw eachother twice, the first time we politely said "hi" in passing. The second time I didn't even notice her and walked right past her before she stopped me and we had a brief conversation.
What have I learned? It seems that if you are interested in a girl and then suddenly back off, she either becomes interested in you or gains interest in you. In other words, women are way too confusing for me to figure them out.
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