I think just flirting a lot and doing real nice things for her will usually get a girl going, but overall I think you can just feel the vibe. Lots of girls I know claim that they hate when a guy is too shy to ask them out or whatever, but I think just playful flirting and simple suggestions to just go out as friends will either lead to something or not.
As for being direct I don't think that's the way. Only makes the girl second guess your intentions and creates awkwardness between the two. also gives the girl too much power.
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