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Well, if you "play the game" and wait a couple more weeks - or months - you spend the whole time going "does she like me as a friend or more?" It's a lot easier to get things out of the way fast and either have a friend or someone who's interested in going out (or at least hooking up) with you.
I don't think you'll really lose much in the way of girls who say no on the spot and later decide you're the one they want. Especially if you're meeting a girl with the intention of going out with her, you'd rather know sooner rather than in a month or two.
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