Nope, I give them back or delete them.
If I have erotic pics, I do not want to see them that way again.
Too much temptation, we have broken up, we have moved on.
I have a VERY long memory, that's good enough.
And the normal pics do just fine.
For example, I had a live-in girlfriend who once made for my B-day
A vid of her in the shower and then getting off on the bed afterwards.
When we separated & she moved out, I gave this back to her.
I don't want things to display our past intimacy,
my feelings are too raw, too real & I cannot separate that from my memories.
This is part of my healing, part of me moving on.
Fading those feelings, otherwise I would continue desiring her.
And that's not good for me or her.
What's past is past.
No more
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