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Originally Posted by Daoust
EXACTLY! You all get so hung up on 'how dare he tell her what he thinks'. That's brutal. If a man can't have an opinion about what his SO is doing, and or can't tell her about it, than obviously there can't be much of a relationship here...
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The point isn't that he can't have an opinion. The point is that he can't "forbid" her from doing it. Every one is entitled to have an opinion, but you can't use emotional blackmail to enforce it.
If she wants to pose and he doesn't, then it's still her choice because it's her body, just as it would be his choice if she objected to him posing. The strength of their relationship will be in whether she chooses not to do it because he objects, or in what he chooses to do should she decided to pose even after he objects.
But all this talk of "allowing" and "forbidding" is just a bit too "Me man, you woman" for me, at least.