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Originally Posted by Charlatan
Wow, we are getting a bit off topic... oh well.
If I am I guy who loves men and when I think about being in a relationship with someone and that someone is a man... I am gay.
If I am that same guy and a can also see myself in relationships with women... that would make me bisexual.
If I am I woman who loves women and when I think about being in a relationship with someone and that someone is a woman... I am a lesbian.
If I am that same woman and a can also see myself in relationships with men... that would make me bisexual.
As for a post op transgendered male who likes to sleep with women... is that transgendered individual a lesbian or a heterosexual? Good question. My first instinct is to say they are hetero.
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Well, yes it is a bit off topic, but these are conversations rather than debates aren't they? Can't they evolve as normal convesations do?
But I gather from your points that the mere thought of relationships with same gender (eg, desire without acting on it) will define one as gay. I think that what I am striving to discover is if it is a purely physical act, versus an emotional commitment.