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I've been reading all replies everyday, but I've been too depressed to comment to anyone, I apologize for that. I'm finally having a better day today.
There's no doubt the child is mine. He doesn't even look anything like my wife. My friends and co-workers call my kid "mini-me". He's almost 3 years old now and looks just like me.
I've consulted with a lawyer and explained my situation. He informed me to speak with my wife even though I'd want primary custody when we get the divorce. I've spoke to my wife and she's now scared shitless. Feels good in a way knowing she's scared because she knows she's about to lose all she has. I'm in a very diffucult position now because I still want her to be a part of my son's life just as much as I am, but there's no way she can even provide for herself, let alone her 3 year old son. I very much want to kick her out the door, but she really has no place to go. Her whole life has been an absolute mess.
I just want to get this over with, can't take the pain anymore. She's still seeing a counselour and I hope she gets better for our son's sake. I hope to have the divorce and get her out of my life by the end of the year. That's probably hoping too much considering the divorce and all the legalities that go along with it will take months.
Thanks everyone for all replies and prayers.
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